Thursday, June 16, 2011

Online friendships can be real.

My friends. Where are they? Spread throughout the globe. Minnesota, Iowa, South Carolina, California, Tennessee, Pennsylvania, Washington, Belgium, France, and Italy. Many people around me wonder and ask me, "How it is possible for you to call those who live so far away from you your friends?" and I always answer with "It just is." 
It all started in 2008, when I signed up for classes through a great Christian online school. It was since that year when I started creating relationships with people whom I had never met face to face. It was all behind our computer screens. It was all such a weird feeling, to know that my closest friends were living in a different country, and I had never met them in the "real" world. That is, until summer came around, and the school, Veritas Press, organized an End of the Year Gathering.... A special event, lasting one week, in which everyone from the school was invited to meet in one place, in which we would be finally able to meet those who became our friends through the online world. Definitely one of the most exciting experiences. It has always been my favorite week of the year, it is the one I have always looked forward to the most. Meeting and seeing those who you talk to behind a bright screen for an entire year is something very special. It is during that 5 day event when we are all as happy as ever.... Exchanging hugs and laughs, sharing smiles filled with joy, and tears when we say goodbye. We all look forward to that gathering... always. We all look forward to communion in the real world... all together. 
Today, I find myself here in my home in Mexico... starting summer, and coming back from my 4th End of the Year Gathering. I find myself sitting in front of my computer, typing this words, while I think of all my friends, whom I dearly miss. I think about how wonderfully blessed I am to know them, and that while some get to see their friends almost every day, and for me it is only once or twice a year, my relationships with them are real. And that is what matters. Sometimes I find it hard to believe that they really are. But that has never stopped me. The way we communicate is through blogs, messages, emails, phone calls, facebook, or letters sent through the mail. Of course, there have been many times in which I wished we all lived close, so we would never have to miss each other and wait 365 days till the next gathering. But it's not that way.... And I'm okay with it, really. I am amazed at how even though distance keeps us from seeing each other many times, our love towards each other is strong enough to keep us waiting until the day we see each other again.
(These some favorite photos from this year's gathering.) 




God has blessed me so much... Friends are hard to find. Christian friends. 
But He has given them to me, no matter what. 
Have a great Friday. ♥ 
-Annie



7 comments:

Caroline said...

Oh, Annie. How I love you and miss giving you hugs and being goofy and talking in a million fragments of a million languages and just... being around you. xoxo.

Anonymous said...

Your thankful content attitude is such a blessing Annie. I've been just been feeling a little down about missing you all. Missing you so very much. This is exactly what I needed to hear. Love you so very very much! Thank You! :)

Amanda Lunsford said...

This was so beautiful and meaningful, Annie. And so true. I'm incredibly thankful for every online friendship. I've grown so much through them. I love you so much and can't wait to see you again. <3

lillian rachel said...

Thank-you annie! I always love your posts, your pictures and words are amazing. I love you and miss you much! Cannot wait to see you in only 50 weeks! ;)

Josie said...

So, I completely cried when I read this. I miss all of you so much! Even just one day without seeing all of you is hard, but God is with us through these relationships. However long distance they may be. ♥ Love you.

Emilyann said...

I so agree that living far away can be a complete blessing. We grow to love each other in a way other friends don't. We WORK at our friendships rather than just see each other every day.

I love you so much, Annie. <3

Andrea C. said...

Annie, that was beautiful. Amazing pictures... they bring back so many breathtaking memories. That is so the truth too... so true. It's hard to explain to people that online friendships ARE real and you actually DO get to know people... it's something special, something wonderful.
I love and miss you so much, Annie. See you in 344 days! <3